During my post-grad life I have learned many things: it is possible to get the recommended hours of sleep an evening during the week. There is no need for a t-shirt to commemorate every event. Most importantly, maintaining friendships requires an active effort.
I have been fortunate to have some of the most amazing best friends in my life. During a chapter visit to Western Kentucky University I got to see my oldest friend, Dorothy, who I became close with in 5th grade after a tragic birthday party miscommunication. (That story goes something like this: my Mom lost the invitation to Dorothy’s birthday party and trusted me as a child to remember the date. My memory failed us and I showed up for the sleepover a day late. After quite some time of crying in the car, Dorothy’s family happily let me stay over anyways to celebrate with leftover cake. You can’t break that bond.) My most recent friendships have developed with the wonderful women I get to call my LC teammates. No amount of miles can separate the laughter, sarcasm and wisdom I share with these friends.
As an adult however, friendship has taken a new meaning for me. Up until this point I have developed friendships based on proximity, common interests and shared schedules. But maintaining a friendship is so much more than these things. My closest friends span across a dozen states and it has required effort to keep in contact and up to date on the lives of the people who I love. The true meaning of friendship is not in quantity but in quality.
This blog post is to say THANK YOU to all of my friends. The people in my life who answer when I call to tell pointless never ending stories, give me the same advice for the 10th time as I struggle to make decisions and know exactly what to say when I need it most. I appreciate the extra effort it takes to keep in touch as I have had the opportunity to travel and the patience when I get caught up in whatever task is at hand and forget respond.
Please enjoy the inspiring friendship of Serena and Blair.
Until next time,
Danielle